විවාහය කැපවීම හා මිත්‍රත්වය පදනම් කරගත් දෙයක්

ߧ ;srfha weh mK fmjQ we;eï pß; fuka u" ienE Ôú;fha wef.a we;eï yeisÍï o wdkafoda,kd;aul tajd úh' ta ksid u weh fyd,sjqvfha mqj;a ujk pß;hla o jQjd h' tfuka u weh ish jD;a;sh fjkqfjka Wmßu idOdrKh bgqlrkd m%;sNdmQ¾K rx.k Ys,amskshl úh' pß; Wfoid weh úiska bÈßm;a l< hq;= ishÆ ksrEmK fjkqfjka weh tä;rj bÈßm;a jQjd h' ta ksid u b;d flá ld,hla ;=< bka§h cd;sl iskud iïudkfhka o mqo,eîug lka.kd rkj;a kï fï iqrEmS rx.k Ys,amsksh iu;ajQjd h' ta 2008 jif¾ ;sr.; jQ “*eIka” Ñ;%mgfha rx.kh fjkqfjks'

lka.kd rkj;a f.a kj;u iskud ks¾udKh jk" ldka;d pß;hla flakao%.; fldg.;a “laùka”Ñ;%mgfha m%o¾Yk lghq;= weröug iQodkñka mj;sk fudfyd;l weh ish ienE Ôú;h ms<sn| iïuqL idlÉPdjl § f;dr;=re fy<sorõ lr ;sfí'

ienE Ôú;fha l,yldÍ pß;hl f,i o m%lg lka.kd" wkqrd.a ndiq yd ixf– .=ma;d jeks Ñ;%mg ks¾udKlrejka" wf– foõ.ka yd ixf– o;a jeks rx.k Ys,amSka iuÛ wjia:d lsysmhl § úúO .egqï o we;s lr.;a;d h'
“uu weiqre lsÍug myiq mqoa.,fhla fkdfjhs' uu fndfydu uqrKavqhs' uu fndfyda mqoa.,hka wfmalaId lrk wkaofï whl= fkdfjhs' kuq;a ud úiska isÿlrk l%shdjkays j.lSu ud úiska u ndr.kakjd' w;S;fha ug isá ñ;=rkag jvd oeka ug jeämqr ñ;=rka isák nj lshkak;a nE'

ug wleue;sj isá mqoa.,hka lsisÿ Èfkl ug leue;a;la olajkafka kE' fmrisg u ud iuÛ tlg isá ug leue;a;la olajk mqoa.,hka ieuod ud iuÛ isákjd' lsisjla fjkia ù kE' ish,a, mj;skafka mej;s f,iuhs'”

lka.kd ;uka .ek olajkafka tjeks woyils'  uE;l§ mej;s “fld*S ú;a lrka” rEmjdyskS jevigykl § iqmsß k¿ wó¾ Ldka i|yka lr we;af;a fnd,sjqvfha isák ird.Su ldka;dj lka.kd rkj;a nj h' Tyq rx.k odhl;ajh ,ndÿka w;sYh id¾:l;ajhg m;a Ñ;%mghla jQ “.ðks” Ñ;%mgfha m%Odk pß;h fjkqfjka lka.kd f;dardf.k isá njg tjl jd¾;d úh'

“uu ‘.ðks’ Ñ;%mgh uÛ yeßfha kE' uu pß;h fjk;a whl= fj; msßkeuqfha;a kE' ta fjkqfjka l=i,;d mÍlaIK lsysmhla meje;ajqKd' lsishï lKavdhula Ñ;%mgfha iq¿ pß;hla fjkqfjka ug l;dl<d'

kuq;a miqj Tjqka fjk;a whl= f;dardf.k ;snqKd' tu mqj; wó¾ Ldka fj; oek.kakg ,enqKd o hkak fyda Tyq ta ms<sn| fidhdneÆfõoehs ud okafka kE'” lka.kd ‘.ðks’ ms<sn| olajkafka tjeks woyils'

wó¾ Ldka ;uka ms<sn| fndre m%Yxid isÿlrk nj o lka.kd fnd,sjqvfha ird.Su ldka;dj njg wó¾ m<l< woyi ms<sn| woyia olajñka lka.kd i;=g msß uqúka mjihs'

“Tyq jevlrk ú,dihg uu leu;shs' tfuka u Tyq nqoaêu;a fuka u wjxl mqoa.,fhla' ud Tyqg uy;a fia f.!rj lrkjd'” weh i|yka lrhs'

‘laùka’ Ñ;%mgfha mQ¾j m%pdrl mgh fï jk úg t<solajd we;s w;r tys ;uka ksrEmKh lrk pß;h ms<sn| weh mjikafka fujekakls'

“weh iajdëkj lghq;= lsÍug ;rï ffO¾hhla fkdue;s ldka;djla' wef.a iajhx úYajdih yd wd;audNsudkh ì£.syska' tfuka u wef.a ndysr fmkqu;a fndfyda fjkia'”

“laùka” Ñ;%mgfha lka.kd ksrEmKh lrkafka wÆf;ka újdy Èúhg we;=¿ jk È,a,s k.rjdiS ;reKshlf.a pß;hls' wef.a újdyh whym;a w;g yeÍu;a iuÛ ish uOqiuh fjkqfjka weh weïiag¾vEï yd meßia k.r n,d ;ksj .uka wrUhs' tfuka u lka.kdf.a ienE Ôú;fha pß;h ‘laùka’ Ñ;%mgfha pß;hg jvd yd;amiskau fjkiajQjls'

“l=vd wjêfha isg u ud ;=< mQ¾K iajhx úYajdihla mej;=Kd' ud tfia lghq;= lsÍu ms<sn| uf.a ujqmshka mjd uú;hg m;ajqKd' ;uka l< lS oE ms<sn| úYajdihlska f;drj lghq;= lrkakkaf.a udkisl ;;a;ajh ms<sn| jgyd.ekSu ug wmyiq ld¾hhla'” lka.kd fmkajdfohs'

lka.kd mjikafka wef.a ienE Ôú;fha uOqiuh .;lsÍug m%sh;djla olajkafka iaúÜi¾,ka;fha yd meßia k.rfha nj h' tfy;a ;ju;a újdyh i|yd iQodkula fkdue;s nj o weh wjOdrKh lrhs'

“újdyh i|yd uf.a iQodkula kE' ud m%shlrkafka ;ksj ys£ughs' uf.a Ôú;fha m%uqL;dj ysñjQ fjk;a foa ;sfnkjd' újdyh hkq ñ;%;ajh yd lemùu mokï lr.;a fohla' tfy;a ug ta ms<sn| ie,iqula kE' iajdëk ;reKshl f,i ug lsisjl=f.a iud.ula wjYHjkafka kE' uu wdydr mSiSug;a" k¾;khg;a leu;shs' ;ukaf.au W;aidyfhka yd iyfhka Ôj;ajkakg ,eîu Nd.Hhla njhs ud i,lkafka'” fuu 26 yeúßÈ iqrEmsksh mjihs'

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